Bias

I don't know if I should be reviewing music at all... I like a wide variety of it, from pop to rock's too many genre... and while I listen to Flatfoot 56 or Yorkshire rats, and its like falling in love anew over the Clash...

I mean, if I had been a musician, I'm sure I'd be playing punk rock. Ei, oi... oi...oi, yeeeaah.

The energy, how a few guitar strumms, rants and angst, and a few words could produce music and reveal passion just amaze and lit me up... like no other genre...

But then again, I guess I'll just keep on reviewing everything. It's fun and I like it the way it is... rock on!

Guilt by Association

J.D. Bouck - vocals / guitar Adrian Boisclair - guitar Britt Bouck - bass / vocals Ryan Griffith - drums

Guilt by association started with J.D. and Britt, a singer/guitarist brother and bassist sister duo. They claim to be tired of listening to the less than genuine bands that filled the airways in the summer of 2000, so they decided to make their own blend of metal, rock, and hardcore. And concocted a sound they call their own: rockcore. Drummer Ryan Griffith and guitarist Adrian Boisclair completed the lineup.

JD says, “It takes a certain type of person to tour and write and constantly go in and out of the studio. We truly feel we are all partners in crime.”

Their site said they built a fan base, dubbed the Inmates, from their hometown of Chatsworth, California to across the U.S. and beyond. Guilt by association’s live performance was hailed as the weapon to take them to the grand court of rockstardom, though “it takes as much of a physical toll on the band as it does on the listener and their senses.”

“It’s very exhilarating to hear the crowd screaming your name,” says Griffith, “You kind of want to run and hide but you definitely don't want them to stop.” The band has earned respect while sharing the stage with Motorhead to A Static Lullaby, Skid Row to Dillinger Escape Plan.

Here's a stumbling of one of the band's members:

rockstarp: how are you?
rp: you're cute
m: tnx
rp: where are u from?
m: phils
rp: cool.
m: haha!
rp: do u want to c2c?
m: no
rp: well i c u!
rp: (smile)
rp: do u c me?
m: ya
m: u play music?
rp: yes
rp: i play guitar
rp: do u like guitar her?
rp: *do you like guitar?
m: yea
m: of course
rp: do you play?
m: no
m: i wrote words
rp: oh that's awesome
m: what d'u play? emo, alt, grunge?
rp: hmm...metalcore/rock emo
rp: how old r u?
m: 104
rp: 104??
m: i see ur guitar
rp: lol yay!
m: i dont like emo
rp: i like all music. as long as it has instruments
rp: do u like tattoos?
m: just lookin. i dont wanna get hurt
rp: hehe
rp: i have a few
m: its ok
m: where d'u play?
rp: everywhere...
rp: http://myspace.com/gba
rp: that's my band
m: what's gba?
rp: guilt by association
m: what's that, accessory 2 d crime? lol
rp: yes lol
rp: hehe
m: i'd listen sometime
m: u had samplers in there?
rp: we're very well known
m: really? u'r signed?
rp: yes
rp: i just come on here when i'm really bored
m: indie or major?
rp: indie. we play with bands like Adema, Dilinger Escape Plan, Drowning Pool, Fear Factory, Saliva...heavy rock bands
m: only heard of fear factory
m: i was like stuck a decade
rp: can u see me still?
m: ya
m: was that a map or sumthin? lol
rp: it's a heart
m: i c
rp: and i got a new one...
m: cool
rp: u likes?
m: haha
rp: who are u with?
m: no 1
rp: oh
rp: u r sexy
m: me?
rp: yeah
m: lol
rp: do u ever come to us?
m: no plan yet
rp: i know many people that live here that are from Philippines
m: yeah, its all over
m: Filipinos
rp: lol
m: ei
rp: can i see the restof u?
m: u mean stand?
rp: yes and turn
m: wait
rp: nice butt lol
m: hev u released an album?
rp: yes
rp: amazon.com
rp: you should buy it
m: k, i'l check
m: but u'r probably kidding
rp: go to amazon.com and search for guilt by association
rp: the name of the cd is called Living In Silence
m: i c
rp: did u find it?
m: wait
m: u'r not in d pic
rp: yes i am!
rp: lol
rp: which pic are u looking at?
rp: that's not my band!
rp: just go to http://guiltbyassociation.com
rp: whats ur name?
rp: adrian
m: ok
m: guess i'll just hev 2 review ur album
m: nice meeting u tho
rp: yeah
rp: remember
rp: www.guiltbyassociation.com
rp: it's that simple
rp: why don't u just listen to me and check it out?
m: u'd sing?
m: lol
rp: yes
m: k
m: i'd turn my speaker on
rp: i have to go to sleep
m: k bye
rp: good night sweetie!

The review: In fairness, I only get to hear the sampler from amazon.com. I am not such a fan of heavy rock, metal, core, whatsoever, but I always appreciate melody evident in Waste Away, Whisper, Better Off, Starve Me, hidden beneath slashing guitars and hooks with mellow interludes. Angry vocals and punishing drives are evident in Living in Silence, Liar, Safe Inside and Sleep.

These are all the ingredients we’d get from Living in Silence’ 9 cuts. Either they are mixed altogether, a sampling per a few seconds of seduction, passion, and anger, or you’re on a ride that won’t hurt the ears at all. I mean, yes, we've been served these improvements before, and they just keep on improving and evolving, and we, non-heavy rock listeners could only be thankful.

It just amazes me how they could have passed up an opportunity to showcase Britt Bouck's vocal prowess. Either they did, or I simply missed it. But it just would keep bothering me until I'd have a chance to listen to the whole album.

Alter Cry

I met David at Y! rock chatroom. As I wrote earlier, there are actually music sharing and swapping done at Y! rock, under music. Yup, there are a lot of freeloading hangers (duh, there for free cam viewing) and boots (they call them boot, IDs that lead to porn sites). To this date, I've listened to a lot of garage heavy pieces shared in the chatroom or passed on to me. Actually, I met one who played country, and another who played everything but country, and I kinda swap their IDs and have not heard from them since. Well, I can't recall, maybe, I had them spammed, or whatever.

Anyway, I have planned to revive my music review hobby way back (a few decades back, and it was not a career actually because whatever I earned from it never got to pay my rent, just collect albums to swap or share with friends, although it occupied most of my youth years). I don't know if I still qualify... first off, my memory of band/musician names and albums, as well as musical history sucks like vacuum (nothing in), 'coz I only get to remember names & titles of those that carried me through hell. And I got stuck in the last century's hits, its like a time machine ride now.

Well, am giving it a try, though. And this one is tough 'coz they are a Christian band. I had reviewed Christian bands before doing easy alternative, and I can no longer recall even the bands' names.

So, what's with Christian bands?

I have never distinguished Christian bands from any other genre, although spiritual pieces always blew me away just like most any other listener. Lecturer Dennis O'Brien acknowledged that rock'n roll and God have always been considered anthemic. But if there is one thing spiritual and so damning good about this music hits, it is their subtlety on spiritualism.

So, there is a strong polarity between "religion" (which has taken a very ugly, brutal and actually disgusting face in contemporary psyche) and "spiritualism" which is much the more acceptable and in trend now.

For the spiritual pieces, we'd take on REM, U2, even Nirvana, and a lot of other major names (Losing My Religion, I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For, Smells Like Teen Spirit) as anthemic and spiritual.

And, as much as I would like to believe Christian music is not religious, I can only hope that the musician per se would agree. But then again, as it had always been with me, it is the music which is the soul. So there is not much to argue in here. Here's our initial chat with Alter Cry:

David Hanson: sup
M: ello! what's new w/ ur music?
Dh: we changed name to Alter Cry ... www.myspace.com/alterycry we found a drummer and 2nd guitarist and will be checking out a keyboardist
Dh: not sure if u knew the name change
M: cool. where r u based? i'd check ur site
Dh: our page is www.myspace.com/altercry
M: K. thanks!
Dh: just posted new lyrics on there and the newest one is Come Home
M: i'd make some reviews bout u in my blog...
M: i'd send u link if done
Dh: cool, some one asked about what our name meant like Alter what did we mean by it alter and in change or altar as in worship... i can send u some info on what our band name means
M: ok, i appreciate whatever info u cd send.
Dh: the {e} in alter means that each and everyone has an error, not one of is perfect. we all fall short of the glory of God. No matter how rough life may get, God still loves us, he will never leave nor forsake us, and he tells us come as we are, and to love one another. to pray for one another/ to lift up one another. Alter Cry means, in the moment when they feel God's love rushing in, and running to God with a humble heart, letting go of everything of their self and laying it down before him. crying out to him to save them. to be renewed in a new creation in Jesus.... when we wrote the name we wrote alter cry. thinking it was right. about a month ago someone mentioned is alter meaning altar.... and that sparked a theme with what the name stood for.... that we all sin, and fall short,
Dh: and needing a fix from the Most High
Dh: not one of us*
M: band member bkgrounds?
Dh: we will have that later on in time i do believe
Dh: K. how about u? bakground pls?
Dh: My name is Dave Hanson, I'm 23 years old I am married to Hannah Hanson, it would be cool to do a full background with the whole group... background about us... We are a Christian Hard/Heavy Melodic Rock group and we do some slower stuff. our mission is to let people know that they are loved by God and that he will will never leave
M: nor forsake them
M: no matter how rough life may get, God is there
M: Dan does bass, Auggie does guitars, Joe on drums, and my wife on back-up vocals, and I do Guitars/vocals and were looking to add a keyboard player
M: u there
M: yup
M: just say what u hev. ds message is saved
Dh: k
Dh: could i see what ya got so far
M: the review?
M: I'l do it later. I'd send u link in case u get offline
Dh: k, sounds good thx




Alter Cry / A Review

The first sampler of Alter Cry is "Love Them". It has some strong riffs, with vox that reminds me of Seattle. The words could carry on this one, "No matter what (they/you) do..." just as long as they add more passion on the guitars (lead, bass, rhythm).

"Truth" is an experimental mix, got some hooks, too, and a mellowing that suddenly leads to a halt, it left me wanting for more. Haha!

"Amazing Grace" reminds me of Eddie Vedder but this one is really raw and needs dressing up.

"Jesus is Your Strength" is an acoustic piece that has an appeal, and has a potential if only the vox and the guitar could work it up a little bit more in sync with what they'd really want to express...

Each of the four samplers had its own identity and if the band could work up on tightening their music, build up on passion (a whole lot more so that hell would spew them out) --- okay, angst, and delete raw on their identity, we're get a real sampling of what's supposed to be in for us.

Never Give Up

But there are those who are so persistent they would disappear for a while, then come back and try again...

psx_hater: why wont u show?
mt: what will i show?
psx_hater : boobs maybe??
mt: ei, Max, sup?
psx_hater : huh?
mt: oooooooops. hehe
psx_hater : u are so hot i can't believe u don'tlike to show
mt: Y baby, am married and sexually content.
psx_hater : but u don't like to show off ur hot body?
psx_hater : knowing that u get guys off?
mt: not exactly but i already hev 3 young kids. If i had been single and still the nasty gal i used to be, i might
psx_hater :
mt: ei, there r lotsa pron sites u can view for free!
mt: porn
psx_hater : there are free ones?
mt: yup
psx_hater : what are they
mt: google it
psx_hater : i would still rather see ur hot body...cause ur normal
psx_hater : don't u think seeing normal people is a lot hotter
mt: i dont know. real person is hotter. like, of course, my husband is d only hottie i know
psx_hater : u think ur husband would be mad if u helped someone cum on cam?
psx_hater : that's not cheating
mt: dont know. but of course, for me its fine to hev helped sum 1 cum, as long as nobody demands anything from me.
psx_hater : i hope ur not thinking i'm demanding i just think ur hot
mt: no. its ok. u'r honest, am honest, so its fair
psx_hater : could u even show now if u wanted to?
psx_hater : or u not alone
mt: no. i really can't. If my job has been related to showing my body, i would, no doubt
psx_hater : oh so you've never helped anyone on here cum before?
psx_hater :
mt: i guess there had been several viewers who just did it just viewing me on cam b4... but i never gave in 2 demand, the rude ones, i spammed
psx_hater: hehe so u did a quick flash for them then?
mt: no, i just went on with my work while d cam is on.
psx_hater : does ur husband give it to u rough or soft
mt: he gets rough most of d time, but i tell him to b a little subtle
psx_hater:lol
psx_hater: is ur pussy shaven or u like to have hair down there
mt: no comment
psx_hater: ah why
mtbmug: i dont like to discuss my private parts.
--


(9/1/2007 10:22:03 AM)
psx_hater: sup hot sutff
m: haven't given up baby?
psx_hater: what do u mean
m: lol, none, am OK, u?
psx_hater: guess i'm not good enough for u huh? what do u need a guy with a 8 inch cock?
m: (lol)
m: am like 103 yrs old, honey
psx_hater: so that's hot
m: and u'r probably like 18
psx_hater: no i'm 25
m: well, OK
psx_hater: im not sure u could even handle an 8 incher
m: maybe, if we hev met on a better time
m: yeah, u'r right
psx_hater: why this is a bad time for u? u showin for another guy huh
m: no, am married, w/ 3 young kids, & my huby's here in d office with me, and all that
psx_hater: ah i see
m: u work?
psx_hater: ya
m: maybe, if u'r not like let me c ur tits, i;d introduce u to my single sis
psx_hater: haha
m: she's 25, too, working 4 AXA insurance
psx_hater: sorry i'm horny a lot i would prolly get myself in trouble...pharmacy here
m: ya? lol. yes, she's got a tart tongue
m: like, maybe, spam u sooner than u'l ever know
psx_hater: what do u mean spam? like block me? haha
m: dont know how she handles it.
m: s dat u on d pic?
psx_hater: ya ur sister is prolly all inocent...i would corrupt her
psx_hater: ya
m: u look young, s old pic?
psx_hater: nah, like a year and a half old maybe
psx_hater: maybe 2 years
m: what's ur name?
psx_hater: Mark
m: Mark what?
psx_hater: Mark Walters
m: loc?
psx_hater: huh?
m: ur location now?
psx_hater: oh ohio
psx_hater: what is this an interview?
psx_hater: lol
m: ei, u know, u'v got d looks, i wonder y u settle on ds stuff --- chat
psx_hater: cause it's fun
m: (lol)
psx_hater: does ur sister have cam?
m: dont know. she only gets online in internet cafes
m: like, she cant do it at work
m: here,
m: horniestfrigid
m: ID
psx_hater: well that sucks...she can't show at internet cafes
m: show tits? lol
m: ur nuts
psx_hater: ya she can't do that there
m: der r a lot free online porn
psx_hater: real girls are always better though
m: den y not go out and meet real girls instead, baby?
psx_hater: no i mean like real girls on cam
m: its like watching some porn video
psx_hater: ya kinda
m: see?
psx_hater: it's hot though
m: y psx_hater???
psx_hater: i dunno why not
psx_hater: lol
m: what's psx?
psx_hater: nothing its just some letters
psx_hater: ur sister a virgin?
m: guess so, like, i had 2 ask, ei sis, u still a virgin?
psx_hater: no i love sex...i doubt ur sister is a virgin

Nice Ones

Just as you would like to think all freeloaders just wanna see tits or boobs on cam, here's one who sends me regularly a quote about the better things in life. Jack sends messages mostly when the recipient is offline. These were sent in different dates, but I was not able to save lots of these messages. My loss.:
usmc.jack: Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.

mt: thanks for ur messages
usmc.jack: yw

usmc.jack: Hi There!
usmc.jack: The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end.

usmc.jack: Once you have loved, You will always love. For what's in your mind may escape, But what's in your heart will remain forever.

usmc.jack: The Eskimo has fifty two names for snow because it is important to them, there ought to be as many for love.

Frustrated Incorporated

jayson: hey, whats up, 24/Guy/Florida
m: Hi Jayson, alien here, 103, pluto
j: sweet, pretty damn far away, 103...what is that is human yrs?
m: guess so
jayson: sweet, so aliens look just like cute humans
jayson_789789: so what are u up to a bit late?
m: yes, i copied. lol. am at d office
jayson: oh, so u are "working" now?
jayson: nice, u aliens have it made, getting paid to play on the net
m: yes, but nt show, am making letters
jayson: but what?
m:
jayson: its 4 in the morning here, and u are stuck working?
jayson: looks like a very casual work outfit
jayson: not that i'm bitching or anything
m: yah, i own d office.
m:
m: sometimes, i work here in relief shirts
jayson: oh, nice, guess u make the rules and dresscode then
jayson: hmmm...releif shirts?
m: from salvation army.
jayson: oh, gotcha
jayson: sounds comfy
m: yah
jayson: but yea, im comfy too, 4 in the morning, so its not like i'm all dressed up either
jayson: just in boxers and a wifebeater
m: k, cool
jayson: so u are working on business now, or just taking a lil break?
m: working, actually
jayson: guess u are good at mulit-tasking then
m: yup
jayson: i worked earlier tonite, but went out with friends afterwards
jayson: for a friends b-day
m: great, u must hev a hangover, lol
jayson: funny, well its 4 in the morning and i have not slept yet, so no hangover yet
jayson: but yea, i am still buzzing and a little bit drunk
jayson: it was a fun nite
jayson: just not tired yet
m: i c
jayson: yea, definetly, dinner, drinks, and a few bars/clubs
m: well, u didnt get laid. lol
jayson: food, girls, and drinks, thats pretty much all a guy needs, right? so i cant complain it was a fun nite
m: good.
jayson: hey, what makes u thin I did not get some?
m: and u want to drain d alcohol
jayson: think*
m: coz u should be tired and snoring. lol
jayson: i am not tired yet, and i did have a girl over
jayson: so we had some fun
jayson: she just had to leave
m: o, ok
jayson: her friend made her leave
jayson: her friend was upset she wasnt getting any
m: oh sad
jayson: funny, i'm sure u feel bad for me
m: not exactly. i am just friendly, like an old buddy
jayson: yea, i did not think I was getting any pity from you
m: y should i pity u? lol
jayson: but yea, her friend was yelling, saying she had to leave or whatever
m:
jayson: u know, b/c i had a girl in my room just taken away from me b/c her friend was crying or whatever
jayson: i think she was just jealous
jayson: and i was teasing, i was not asking for pity, it just wasnt cool what her friend did, thats all
m: most probably.
m: u should have tried her
jayson: i just thanked her for ruining the end of my nite
m: must be a bitch of sort.
jayson: definetly
jayson: my roommate was sleeping, i was trying to wake him up to distract her
jayson: so i could be with my girl
jayson: it didnt work
m:
m: rude
jayson: of me?
jayson: my roommate was too drunk, he passed out
m: some luck u got
jayson: i know, so not fair
jayson: but whatever, i'll get over it
m: yes.
m: loc?
jayson: where am i at?
jayson: Florida
m: OK, we're on opposite time zones
jayson: yea, i figured
jayson: with u working
jayson: where are u at
jayson: i am in no shape to work now
m: its ok, i can handle ds
m: am in pluto
jayson: i yea, pluto i forgot
jayson: crazy that u speek english on pluto too...what are the odds
m: well, we're a little advance, i guess lol
jayson: and u have a salvation on pluto too
jayson: thats crazy, we have those too
m: well, we imported
jayson: really, and its cheaper to import from earth rather than make your own?
jayson: i dont know...i have a hunch you're lying, i'm getting suspicious
m:
m: i hang in here to listen to NO RAIN. lol
jayson: hmm...the blind melon song?
m: yup
jayson: did that song just hit puto? b/c it came out like 15 yrs ago or so
jayson: Pluto*
m: No, i got stuck w/ 90s earth music. lol
m: been listening to it for more than a decade too
jayson: oh, i see, that makes total sence then
m: well, i ws trying to catch up at Y! rock
jayson: can't be easy i'm sure
jayson: the music gets worse anyways
jayson: so maybe u shouldn't
m: yes, i guess. like, emo? i'd take air supply any time
jayson: i like some new stuff
m: ya, some
jayson: but most, like fergie or whatever, i cant stand
m: some remakes! lol
jayson: were u just being a boss?
jayson: looks like u were just talking to someone
m: ya, tax matters
jayson: tax matters...fun
m: fun?
m:
m:
jayson: teasing obviously
jayson: definetly not fun
m: yeah.
m: brb
jayson: k
jayson: oh, you're back
jayson: more exciting tax matters?
m: alwals shit
m: always
jayson: hmm...and u changed your hair?
m: the BIR makes my world hot
jayson: hmm...BIR?
m: Bureau of Interbal Revenue
m: Internal
jayson: oh, gotcha
jayson: i thought u meant like hot, as in turned-on
m: boil.
m: i wanna send them all 2 hell
jayson: go for it
jayson: i won't say anything
m: thnakx. really need that
m:
jayson: our little secret
m:
jayson: what time is it there?
m: 4:42 pm
jayson: oh, so at least your day of work is almost over
m: no, i just wish
m: loads of work
jayson: oh, thats not cool
jayson: dont u get a break to play a bit
jayson: i mean, u are the boss afterall
m: ya, am a workaholic
jayson: oh, but u dont want to burn yourself out
jayson: u need some fun, thats all
m: i might. lol. than 2 fade away.
jayson: exactly, so finish work early and relax and have some fun
m: fun? its enough fo me to listen to my music
jayson: k, whatever works for u then
jayson: dont let my questionable, american work ethic bring u down
m: no, its ok, i respect all kinds of ethics
jayson: i was only making a joke
m: sure, its ok
m: besides, i dont think americans hev questionable work ethics.
m: just questionable economic ethics
jayson: guess its all debatable
m: no, looking fr out here, for economic reasons (probably 4 a handful), america will blast any/everybody
jayson: its not like we agree
jayson: its just this gov't
m: i said probably 4 a handful
jayson: but yea, i can definetyl see why people would be pissed with us
m: no, many people r not pissed w. americans. maybe, with pentagon. lol
jayson: yea, trust me, we are pissed too
jayson: at least the smart americans are
m: yes. anyway, it just happens
jayson: pretty much
jayson: just dont hold it against me
m: no, of course not. unless of course u'r from Pentagon. lol
m: u'r not Jason Bourne, of course. lol
jayson: funny, nope, of course not
jayson: and nope, not matt damon either
m:
jayson: just came out, i hear its really good
m: ya, d books r good
jayson: funny, had no idea there were books
jayson: i dont read fiction
m: Robert Ludlum
jayson: k, had no idea
m: its ok. i dont hev much knowledge of pop things either
jayson: i have alot of pop culture knowledge, i just don't read fiction books, so i had no clue Bourne was based off books
m: he is, one the spies who got derailed
jayson: i know
jayson: i saw the 1st movie
m: hevnt seen d 2nd 1?
jayson: hey, computer problems
jayson: and ya, guess i did see the 2nd
m: u, ok
D S: yea, my computer got weird, thats all
m: lol.
m: brb, am just printing some docs
D S: k

Meet Mr. Discipline/Punishment

Since we started chatting (always from Y! chat), this buddy always talked about punishment, or disciplining kids. He saw my Ivong on cam, and since then, most chats went about disciplining children... and as I have said earlier, it's always a challene to keep the convesation in neutral ground...

f66_sm : >:Df66_sm : :-*
f66_sm : invite?
mt: wait
f66_sm : kmt: i look awful today, my kids & hubby arrived late last nite sono sleep
f66_sm : let me decide
f66_sm : u can never look awful
mt: i do
f66_sm : oh i look awful!!
f66_sm : :D
mt : lots of work
f66_sm : oh ok
f66_sm : u look great as usual
mt: kind of u
f66_sm : u do all house works? or he helps?
mt: we have a helper, but we help in everything
f66_sm : hubby too?
mt: mostly, he attends to our kids, while i manage the office
f66_sm : okmt: he is active in d office when september comes
f66_sm : okmt: u?f66_sm : u have a nice sailor shirt
f66_sm : yes i help at home sure
mt: i dont know what this shirt is
f66_sm : and we have a helper once a week
mt: i work relaxed, with feet up. lol
f66_sm : yes but why with pants??
mt : i always use pants... actually, my original get up is old jeans & cotton shirt
f66_sm : why not just panties?
mt : =))
f66_sm : i work nakedf
66_sm : u want to see?
mt : no
f66_sm : sure u must be careful
f66_sm : but as we are good friends i think that u can see..
mt: yes, and u know, my hubby can see through me
mt: i cant keep him secrets
f66_sm : cause i are slim!
mt: pardon?
f66_sm : he can se through u cause u are slim
f66_sm : he can see...
mt: i mean, just looking in my eyes, he knows if i keep a secret
mt: if its good, bad or nasty
f66_sm : ok
mt: we were best buddies, b4 we had a relationship
f66_sm : yes he is lucky to have u
mt: i hope so. i am also nasty
f66_sm : thats why i like u
mt: y? bec i am nasty?
mt: =))
f66_sm : no because u can be nasty sometimes
mt: well yes.
mt: tell me about urself instead
f66_sm : what would u like to know? all?
mt: things you consider fun, work, family
f66_sm : lets talk about sex
mt: sex?
f66_sm : yes u know what is it?
mt: of course
f66_sm : oh ok
f66_sm : u like sex?
mt: of course
mt: want to c what am doing?
f66_sm : oh yes
mt: am making a brochure
f66_sm : oh nice
f66_sm : how much money u take for it?
mt: its an office project
f66_sm: oh ok
f66_sm : i have 2 sites
mt: if u let me do some of ur stuffs, i'll earn
mt: what sites?
f66_sm : yes i can think of it cause here they take 50$ for it
mt: ok, i may charge d same, or lower
f66_sm : but u dont have hebrew fonts
mt: uh, yeah,
f66_sm : :-*
mt: maybe, if u need ENglish stuff
f66_sm : yes maybe
f66_sm : cool
f66_sm : great
f66_sm : i like the idea
mt: good. if u also need a website, buzz me
f66_sm: i have 2 websites that i owned
f66_sm : but in hebrew
mt: i c.
mt: u must b making huge
f66_sm : no not yet just for eating and so
mt: OK
mt: if u go international
f66_sm : yes sure
mt: ok
mt: u'r bz?
f66_sm : yes a bit working
mt: great]
f66_sm : sorry i had to go cause they played withn fire here
mt : :-O
f66_sm : yes
mt: K
f66_sm : is it bad?
mt : depends, where and the damage
f66_sm : in my room and just begining of the carpet
mt: ei, u better check
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : why?
f66_sm : the wall too is black
mt: r u nuts? b4 it spreads
f66_sm : oh ther is no fire now
mt: OK, seems lke ur kids like to play with fire
f66_sm : yes
mt: must RUN IN THE FAMILY. :)
f66_sm : what would u do to stop them?
mt: first ofense, i talked to him (eldest, he was about 3-4 then) nicely.
f66_sm : i did that
mt: 2nd offense, he burnt his finger, and his dad spanked him
mt: third offense, i whip with stick
mt : NON YET SO FAR for another offense
f66_sm : so he got 2 spankings?
f66_sm : one on his finger then with the stick?
mt: yes. But in both offense, I told him why
f66_sm : oh sure
f66_sm : how many swats he got from u and his dad?
mt : one fr his dad, and maybe, 2 fr me
f66_sm : on his hands?
mt: legs
mt: or butt
f66_sm : ok ty
mt: no prob
f66_sm : u ground too after?
mt: yea, but its always forgotten. NO TV
f66_sm : oh but not in his room?
mt: no TV in rooms, just in the family area
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : when was it?
mt: like, maybe it was some 3 yrs ago... so it means he has learned
f66_sm : :)
f66_sm : so u think that what i should do?
mt: depends.
mt: i guess u can gauge ur kids
f66_sm : in what way?
mt: if they like watching TV, then, no TV for 3 months
f66_sm : nothing?
mt: else? Maybe, u should keep an eye on them often
f66_sm : so no tv for 3 months and phone or pc or friends too?
mt: could be
mt: but pc, they have to make school projects/research
f66_sm : yes just for homework
f66_sm : 3 months no tv no friends no phone no toys?
mt : could be
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : u want?
mt: what?
f66_sm : that i try it?
mt: up to u
f66_sm : what about toys? not allowed too?
f66_sm : just home works then sleep?
mt: up to u
f66_sm : and chores?
mt : yes, they hev to do
f66_sm : ok ty
f66_sm : i can ground them in their rooms?
mt: up to 2
mt: u
f66_sm : i mean after school to the room and not allowed to go out just with permission and just to chores?
mt: u can do that
f66_sm : what about eating or toilets?
mt: ei, that's too much!
f66_sm : what do u mean?
mt: eating & toilet r necessities
f66_sm : yes but with permission?
mt: :-Omt: NO
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : but 3 months is ok?
mt: up 2 u
f66_sm : yes but u want me to try and see?
mt: sure
f66_sm : tell them to go to their rooms now then i explain?
mt : yes
f66_sm : ok hold on ok?
f66_sm : can i see u?
f66_sm : i just told them
mt: wait
mt: i feel sleepy already
f66_sm : let me see u sleepy
f66_sm : ty
f66_sm : do i have to explain why or just after 3 months?
mt: explain it ASAP
f66_sm : ok but after the chat ok?
mt: k, wait, am printing my brochure
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : meanwhile i told them not to open tv or phone and not play
mt: c my brochure
f66_sm : yes nice
mt: we're on a tight campaign
f66_sm : oh ok
mt: only less than 2 months preparation
f66_sm : oh ok
mt: i'd be signing off any minute now
f66_sm : i told them just to sit on the chair and wait
mt: k
mt: that's great where their mom?
f66_sm : not here
f66_sm : i can lock the doors?
mt: up 2 u. but thta is too much
f66_sm : but it will help?
mt: no
f66_sm : i think i will just talk to them
f66_sm : thats all
mt: yes
f66_sm: it is better
f66_sm: i need to go now
mt: ok, bye
f66_sm: ok -