Saturday, August 11, 2007

Meet Mr. Discipline/Punishment

Since we started chatting (always from Y! chat), this buddy always talked about punishment, or disciplining kids. He saw my Ivong on cam, and since then, most chats went about disciplining children... and as I have said earlier, it's always a challene to keep the convesation in neutral ground...

f66_sm : >:Df66_sm : :-*
f66_sm : invite?
mt: wait
f66_sm : kmt: i look awful today, my kids & hubby arrived late last nite sono sleep
f66_sm : let me decide
f66_sm : u can never look awful
mt: i do
f66_sm : oh i look awful!!
f66_sm : :D
mt : lots of work
f66_sm : oh ok
f66_sm : u look great as usual
mt: kind of u
f66_sm : u do all house works? or he helps?
mt: we have a helper, but we help in everything
f66_sm : hubby too?
mt: mostly, he attends to our kids, while i manage the office
f66_sm : okmt: he is active in d office when september comes
f66_sm : okmt: u?f66_sm : u have a nice sailor shirt
f66_sm : yes i help at home sure
mt: i dont know what this shirt is
f66_sm : and we have a helper once a week
mt: i work relaxed, with feet up. lol
f66_sm : yes but why with pants??
mt : i always use pants... actually, my original get up is old jeans & cotton shirt
f66_sm : why not just panties?
mt : =))
f66_sm : i work nakedf
66_sm : u want to see?
mt : no
f66_sm : sure u must be careful
f66_sm : but as we are good friends i think that u can see..
mt: yes, and u know, my hubby can see through me
mt: i cant keep him secrets
f66_sm : cause i are slim!
mt: pardon?
f66_sm : he can se through u cause u are slim
f66_sm : he can see...
mt: i mean, just looking in my eyes, he knows if i keep a secret
mt: if its good, bad or nasty
f66_sm : ok
mt: we were best buddies, b4 we had a relationship
f66_sm : yes he is lucky to have u
mt: i hope so. i am also nasty
f66_sm : thats why i like u
mt: y? bec i am nasty?
mt: =))
f66_sm : no because u can be nasty sometimes
mt: well yes.
mt: tell me about urself instead
f66_sm : what would u like to know? all?
mt: things you consider fun, work, family
f66_sm : lets talk about sex
mt: sex?
f66_sm : yes u know what is it?
mt: of course
f66_sm : oh ok
f66_sm : u like sex?
mt: of course
mt: want to c what am doing?
f66_sm : oh yes
mt: am making a brochure
f66_sm : oh nice
f66_sm : how much money u take for it?
mt: its an office project
f66_sm: oh ok
f66_sm : i have 2 sites
mt: if u let me do some of ur stuffs, i'll earn
mt: what sites?
f66_sm : yes i can think of it cause here they take 50$ for it
mt: ok, i may charge d same, or lower
f66_sm : but u dont have hebrew fonts
mt: uh, yeah,
f66_sm : :-*
mt: maybe, if u need ENglish stuff
f66_sm : yes maybe
f66_sm : cool
f66_sm : great
f66_sm : i like the idea
mt: good. if u also need a website, buzz me
f66_sm: i have 2 websites that i owned
f66_sm : but in hebrew
mt: i c.
mt: u must b making huge
f66_sm : no not yet just for eating and so
mt: OK
mt: if u go international
f66_sm : yes sure
mt: ok
mt: u'r bz?
f66_sm : yes a bit working
mt: great]
f66_sm : sorry i had to go cause they played withn fire here
mt : :-O
f66_sm : yes
mt: K
f66_sm : is it bad?
mt : depends, where and the damage
f66_sm : in my room and just begining of the carpet
mt: ei, u better check
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : why?
f66_sm : the wall too is black
mt: r u nuts? b4 it spreads
f66_sm : oh ther is no fire now
mt: OK, seems lke ur kids like to play with fire
f66_sm : yes
mt: must RUN IN THE FAMILY. :)
f66_sm : what would u do to stop them?
mt: first ofense, i talked to him (eldest, he was about 3-4 then) nicely.
f66_sm : i did that
mt: 2nd offense, he burnt his finger, and his dad spanked him
mt: third offense, i whip with stick
mt : NON YET SO FAR for another offense
f66_sm : so he got 2 spankings?
f66_sm : one on his finger then with the stick?
mt: yes. But in both offense, I told him why
f66_sm : oh sure
f66_sm : how many swats he got from u and his dad?
mt : one fr his dad, and maybe, 2 fr me
f66_sm : on his hands?
mt: legs
mt: or butt
f66_sm : ok ty
mt: no prob
f66_sm : u ground too after?
mt: yea, but its always forgotten. NO TV
f66_sm : oh but not in his room?
mt: no TV in rooms, just in the family area
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : when was it?
mt: like, maybe it was some 3 yrs ago... so it means he has learned
f66_sm : :)
f66_sm : so u think that what i should do?
mt: depends.
mt: i guess u can gauge ur kids
f66_sm : in what way?
mt: if they like watching TV, then, no TV for 3 months
f66_sm : nothing?
mt: else? Maybe, u should keep an eye on them often
f66_sm : so no tv for 3 months and phone or pc or friends too?
mt: could be
mt: but pc, they have to make school projects/research
f66_sm : yes just for homework
f66_sm : 3 months no tv no friends no phone no toys?
mt : could be
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : u want?
mt: what?
f66_sm : that i try it?
mt: up to u
f66_sm : what about toys? not allowed too?
f66_sm : just home works then sleep?
mt: up to u
f66_sm : and chores?
mt : yes, they hev to do
f66_sm : ok ty
f66_sm : i can ground them in their rooms?
mt: up to 2
mt: u
f66_sm : i mean after school to the room and not allowed to go out just with permission and just to chores?
mt: u can do that
f66_sm : what about eating or toilets?
mt: ei, that's too much!
f66_sm : what do u mean?
mt: eating & toilet r necessities
f66_sm : yes but with permission?
mt: :-Omt: NO
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : but 3 months is ok?
mt: up 2 u
f66_sm : yes but u want me to try and see?
mt: sure
f66_sm : tell them to go to their rooms now then i explain?
mt : yes
f66_sm : ok hold on ok?
f66_sm : can i see u?
f66_sm : i just told them
mt: wait
mt: i feel sleepy already
f66_sm : let me see u sleepy
f66_sm : ty
f66_sm : do i have to explain why or just after 3 months?
mt: explain it ASAP
f66_sm : ok but after the chat ok?
mt: k, wait, am printing my brochure
f66_sm : ok
f66_sm : meanwhile i told them not to open tv or phone and not play
mt: c my brochure
f66_sm : yes nice
mt: we're on a tight campaign
f66_sm : oh ok
mt: only less than 2 months preparation
f66_sm : oh ok
mt: i'd be signing off any minute now
f66_sm : i told them just to sit on the chair and wait
mt: k
mt: that's great where their mom?
f66_sm : not here
f66_sm : i can lock the doors?
mt: up 2 u. but thta is too much
f66_sm : but it will help?
mt: no
f66_sm : i think i will just talk to them
f66_sm : thats all
mt: yes
f66_sm: it is better
f66_sm: i need to go now
mt: ok, bye
f66_sm: ok -

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